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How to Break the Pattern of Failure
The secret to changing direction when you’re fed-up with failure.
When we experience challenges, the compulsion to focus on the problem or the threat of what might happen is a natural human one. Being automatically drawn to the “worst-case-scenario” is a part of our survival system.
Why it’s easier to feel bad than good.
Wherever You Face Your Face…
You’re always going in the direction you’re facing. This means, wherever your focus is, in the moment, is what you’re heading toward in that moment.
If you’re thinking about something you DON’T want, you’re heading straight toward it as long as you’re thinking about it. The answer is to choose to stop, and change your focus to what you DO want.
It’s not always easy, but it IS possible. Do whatever it takes.
Grabbing the Wheel